
Here is Grandma Packer with William in July of 2009
Brad's parents called this morning with the news that Noelene's Mom--Viloa Geertsen Packer--had passed away. I can't help but being a little sad to lose such an amazing person, but since she was almost 92 it isn't sad, sad either. I'm so happy that she is with her sweetheart and free of the all the pains of old age. But oh how she will be missed!
Tiffany, the wonderful spouse of Brad's cousin Phillip, got it just right when she said that Grandma made everyone feel like they were her favorite.
I'll try to sum up the kind of person Grandma Packer was through a few memories I have of her. And while she isn't my Grandma...she adopted me and so many others into her family. I felt like her granddaughter even before Brad and I got married!
After Grandpa Packers funeral Grandma slipped Brad some loan money for our, or rather my, wedding ring. Never mind that she just lost her husband--she was so willing to help her grandchildren. (And don't worry, Brad paid her back in full before the wedding...love the memories of those wonderful but very humble BYU days.)
I could hear the hum and whisp of Grandma's oxygen machine during our temple sealing. Even when she was feeling particularly wonderful, she made the long drive to Phoenix for our wedding.
Grandma and I must have watched at least two movies on the Lifetime Network while Brad and Clay went to a priesthood session of General Conference. They came back to find both of us in tears.
I once commented to Grandma that marriage wasn't easy and that I sometimes lose my temper. She said that was okay, once she was upset about something silly and Bill took the kids for an ice cream so she could calm down. I can't picture her being upset, but she told me this story several times.
Grandma was willing to give you her time, anytime. She would come to Phoenix for a month or more, just to be with Kent and Noelene and see the grandkids and great grandkids. She loved it and did it right up until the end.
Grandma loves babies and kids. I've never seen someone so enamored by a little baby. It was sweet to watch her with my kids, especially David.
Grandma was there when Brad got his acceptance letter to BU Dental during in early 2008; she told us point blank not to spend money flying to Utah for her funeral. Probably my only consolation for not being there.
I think it was a lot of influence from Grandma Packer that made my mother-in-law into the lovely person that she is--so willing to spend time with own her kids and grandkids.
I know that Brad has many, many things he remembers that are more encompassing and but I had to share a few things that I love about Grandma Packer.